I absolutely loved reading this, Nesta.
Falling in and being in love does have an inherent fragility in it. You can fall out of it, fall back, or not be in love anymore. And this is why love from deliberation and action withstand many tides while love that comes and goes into people’s lives in its own terms get eroded.
I pray you keep loving the way you do, and that others understand and learn this timeless form of love.